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Voluntary Solitary

I have reached that point in life where changing the bed sheets is a day-long goal, especially when there is a seasonal change. Bringing out the duvet and putting the cover on requires a work period of...

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She Did Her Best

If I were to have a headstone one day, I would want it to read “She Did Her Best,” but that won’t happen because I plan to be cremated after I shuffle off this mortal coil. I don’t know what will...

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One Thing Leads To Another

Yes, friends. This is another of my shaggy dog stories in which one event, or thought, or action leads to a surprising and unrelated consequence. Yesterday I went to the local presentation of Beyond...

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Anger Management

Today I watched as one angry man evoked three very different responses in the people around him. I had an appointment for regular blood and urine tests at a nearby clinic. When I arrived I found the...

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Toad Work

Recently I have been enjoying the British television series “Down Cemetery Road.” It is a brilliant mystery drama with first-rate acting, and it can be found on Apple TV and Amazon Prime in Canada. I...

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Flippin’ Heck!

Recently, I enjoyed attending the performance of the magnificent Island Soul Choir at the Nanaimo Port Theatre. The whole show was a treat and included performances by Treble Magic and Tai Williams....

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Who Am I, Again?

I had a conversation the other day that made me doubt my entire self-perception for the entirety of my life. The social club that I belong to is having a holiday gathering in December and I was asked...

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Glorious Self-Delusion

I recently enjoyed a play performed by the Nanaimo Theatre Group (NTG) entitled “Glorious,” written by Peter Quilter. It was a delightfully comedic performance portraying the life of Florence Foster...

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Learning to Say No

I am learning, much too late in life, to say no to people without apologizing. For reference, I am 76 years old and have always tried to accommodate, even to go out of my way, to let other people’s...

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Bohemian Golden Anniversary

This year, 2025, is the golden anniversary of my immigration to Canada. For fifty years I have enjoyed the opportunities, the welcome, the beautiful landscapes, and the social security that this...

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Can’t You Take A Joke?

Even though I am a Canadian, a lot of the television I watch has been created in the United States. I try not to watch American news channels, but I do enjoy a lot of American fiction and satire. There...

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Light Bulb Moment

Last week I read the text of an National Public Radio (NPR) article that suddenly opened my eyes to something that had been puzzling me for a long time. It was not just an “Aha!”  moment. It was a...

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Call Screening

I love call screening! It means I can check out who is calling and either ignore the call or answer, according to my mood and the call’s value to me. My phone, a Google Pixel 8 Pro, has an app that...

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Thoughts About Backyard Birds and Condo Boards

I am thankful for all the comforts I have, and they are many. I live in a lovely condo in a lovely city, in a lovely Canadian province. I have a reliable income and fairly good health. My life includes...

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The Scold’s Bridle

The Scold’s Bridle, sometimes called the Gossip’s Bridle, or the Brank’s Bridle, was a form of punishment and public humiliation in the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries. It was a device placed over the...

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There Has To Be An Us

“There has to be an us because now there is a them.” Margaret Atwood. On my patio are two bird feeders. One is a hummingbird feeder and although it occasionally has visits from other birds it really...

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Grumbling. The Last Refuge of the Powerless

You all know the people I’m talking about. They are your family, neighbours, and friends. They are bloggers and YouTubers and TikTokers. They are anyone and everyone who feels disenfranchised. The...

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Going Out With A Bang

Looking back on fifty years as a foreign affairs commentator for Britain’s The Guardian, Simon Tisdall has written an article to knock your socks off. His outrage has been triggered by some comments...

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Unusual Patriotism

I have lived in Canada since 1975 and in all that time I have not witnessed much overt patriotism. Canadians love to win international hockey games, of course, and they express a lot of emotions on...

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Landing Gear

A recent plane crash in Toronto seems to be related to landing gear. It is possible that the landing gear failed on impact which lead to the plane tipping and one wing breaking up. That lead to the...

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